The 7 keys to become a total badass
In this article I want to share with you the 7 keys to become a total badass
One of the worst things I had to endure was watching helpless how a total 10 left me, and rushed into the arms of a bad guy.
I didn’t wanted to become an ass****le, to attract women.
I knew that I needed to transform myself from a “nice guy” into a badass,
and I find out that I was not the only one struggling with my boy’s mentality that was driving away every hot woman I approached.
Let us start with the 7 keys to become a total badass:
Key #1 Badass has a high sense of self-esteem
Unfortunately many males put their value in things outside them.
A close friend of mine married a foreign hot woman and he told me that she married him only because he has a blue passport.
Don’t make the same mistake!
Your self-esteem, your own value doesn’t depend of things external to you: expensive fancy clothes, expensive cars, it is inside of you you.
You live in your own world, and your own reality and you need to accept that you are awesome, that you came to this world to add value and make the difference.
You can use NLP to learn from your “mistakes” and transform them into learning opportunities and stepping stones in your success ladder.
Many males repeat themselves these lies:
I’m not good enough, I’m not tall enough, I’m not strong enough, I ‘m not old/young enough
You are good enough exactly as you are now! This is your starting point.
Key #2 Badass has a vision
You only have two options in life:
- Work for your dreams to make them true,
- or give up to your dreams and work to make other people’s dream come true.
This is your life, nobody else. And as a real badass you have a vision and you will work to make it happen.
Take the time to read Stephen Covey’s “The 7 habits of highly effective people”
It is a classic self help book that will help you to create your own vision and work to make it happen.
Write down a list of the things that will make your life awesome, could be:
- I enjoy of a great health
- I’m dating the woman of my dreams
- I have 20 millions dollar in my bank account
- Travel around the world 3 times a year
Write down everything you can think will make your life amazing. Write at least ten items
Of these items choose 2 to 5 items that are the most important.
Now ask yourself:
Why do you really want 20 million dollars in your bank account?
Maybe what you really want is more time to spend with your family and friends,
the people who really matters most in your life.
Maybe you want an expensive new car to increase your self-esteem,
just keep in mind your self-worth is something inside of you.
Why do you want to date the woman of your dreams?
Of your new list choose the 3 to 5 items, Now you have a center piece of your vision.
Key #3 Badass has a positive ideal self-image to grow to
Tomas Watson he founder of IBM mentioned that first he had a clear idea about how his ideal business should run,
and when he arrived to the office he started to work according to his vision of the business.
Now that you have a vision about your ideal life, it is time to see yourself as the person who lives the life you desire.
This ideal self-image that you want to develop will pull you to achieve your goals.
You need to write down in a believable way your new self-beliefs.
If you think that hot girls are not attracted to you, you could change it for : “My dream woman will feel attracted for me”
Now write down your ideal self-image, this self-image will drive you to become a true badass.
Now you need to use Positive Affirmations, please take the time to read Lindsay Haskel “Affirmations: Reprogram your subconscious mind”
Make the commitment to repeat your affirmations in the morning before you wake up, and before you fall sleep for at least 90 days.
Also review every day for at least 90 days the 7 keys to become a total badass
Key #4 Badass always take action
As a true badass you need to take action now!
Improve yourself every day, little by little.
Let assume you want to lose 20 pounds of extra weight, many people try it without success because they want immediate results.
We live in a right now society:
overnight delivery from one side to the world to the other,
so we fail to realize that many things takes time.
You didn’t gain 20 pounds in just one week,
quite probably it took you some months or maybe years, and yet so many people want to see results over night. Life doesn’t work that way.
Learn to make small changes and keep going one step at the time, so you don’t feel discouraged if you don’t see immediate results.
Japanese people have an amazing life and work philosophy based on Kaizen, they make small improvement everyday
As a badass you should adopt the kaizen way of life.
Many males make the mistake to learn jokes or magic tricks to try to impress beautiful girls.
Granted you get her attention,
however you don’t want to project to her the image that you are just an entertainer instead of a potential lover.
Learn skills that makes you more desirable to her,
like how to give relaxation massages,
or even reading palms for some reason girls always want to know what the future holds for them.
One advantage is that you start touching her from the very beginning in a non-creepy way and makes her feel closer to you.
Key #5 Badass nurture himself with healthy and positive dialogues
As a badass you take the responsibility to make you feel good.
Eliminate from your life the food, television, music, people, clothes that makes you feel down.
Use positive affirmations to validate yourself constantly
Remember the first phrase above?
I’m good enough
Since nature abhors vacuum:
You need to change the music that drags you down with uplifting music,
the time you spent watching worthless TV shows you can use it to work out.
Sleep enough so you feel revitalized
Practice gratitude daily.
Focus on the things that you already have and you will find countless reasons to be thankful.
Practice meditation every day, every religion has one way of meditation take the time to learn your own meditation technique the results will be amazing.
Key #6 Badass has an abundance mentality
Boy’s mentality is scarcity mentality.
An abundance mentality makes you a generous man.
And several studies shows that generous people are healthier than stingy people.
You have to give time to yourself, to the things that really matter:
Reading, learning new skills, traveling, spending time with your loved ones. And of course mastering your inner game so you can date the woman of your dreams.
A real badass has an abundance mentality: you know that you can find beautiful women everywhere.
If you want to get more wealth the secret recipe is:
Donate more money to your preferred charity organization and give your tithes to your church.
Small gestures like a simple Hi to the bank clerk can make the difference in his/her day. Learn to give without expecting nothing in return:
Smile more often,
Banter with every employee you meet, they are real humans just like you.
Keep in mind to be sincere
Do the things that you love and invite other to join you
Put yourself in a positive state and share it
Connect people who may be valuable to each other
Let us review the last of the 7 keys to become a total badass
Key #7 Badass don’t compromise their own values
You don’t need to change your values nor try to “fit in” into other people’s reality.
Neither you try to change others, you accept that everybody is trying to do their best with their life using the resources that they have available.
You live according to your own values and mission,
you don’t seek acceptance,
your grant it.
You can learn more in the book “7 Keys of being a total badass“